Dear Parent: You Are Enough

Hey there, parent. Let’s take a moment to breathe, okay? Because I see you. I see you handling all the things with an effortless smile on the outside, while chaos and anxiety simmer just beneath the surface. You’re not alone, even though it might feel that way. And here’s the truth: you are not incompetent. You are enough.

We, as parents, put so much pressure on ourselves. We juggle, plan, and stretch to meet expectations—to make sure our kids feel included, special, and supported. But let’s be honest: those expectations often miss the mark.

The truth is, the things we push ourselves to do aren’t always the things that matter most. Your kids don’t need the “perfect” birthday party, the latest gadgets, or meticulously curated experiences. What they need is YOU. Your love, your presence, your comfort.

Think about it: when your kids are hurt, scared, or just plain exhausted, who do they call for? What do they need most? It’s not a Pinterest-perfect snack or the coolest toy in the room. It’s you—your hugs, your reassurance, your time.

So let’s shift the focus. Spend your energy on what truly matters to you and your family, even if it doesn’t fit the “norm” or feels a little unconventional. Forget keeping up with the Joneses. If your version of quality time is dancing in the kitchen or telling silly bedtime stories, embrace it. If your priorities look different from everyone else’s, own it. This is your life, your family, your journey.

At the end of the day, your kids won’t remember the things. They’ll remember the moments. The love. The way you made them feel. So, live on your own terms and focus on what matters most to you. Because you are enough, just as you are.